My /now page
(This is a now page, and if you have your own site, you should make one, too.)
My Who:
- The handsome black cat who adopted us this winter. His name is Comrade Boris the Trilling Void. We call him Bobo.
My Where:
- Rural Minnesota
- Rural Michigan (soon)
- The Indieweb
My What:
- MOVING HOUSE. aaaaaaaaaaaaaa
- Feeding 80+ people a night at an assisted living facility.
- APPARENTLY I AM ALSO GETTING TOP SURGERY NEXT MONTH TOO
- Participating in the local Pride Organizing Committee.
- Being an elected delegate of the Minnesota DFL party for the first time.
- Learning how to operate a Linux System after a lifetime of Windows.
- Learning how to code because I want to make a website of my own. It's uh. It's going! In a direction!
My When:
- Minnesota DFL Convention in May of this year.
- Queer Crafting Night, twice monthly.
- Who moves from a northern state to a northern state in November, during a mid-term election?! Apparently this guy. FFFfffffffffffffff
My Why:
- I'm queer, I'm trans, I'm neurodivergent, and I struggled through life until my mid-20's, when I burnt out. Several times.
- I got really, really lucky about the people I met in life.
- Being out, receiving HRT, and being properly medicated made the rest of my life possible.
- I want more people like me to make it past 40.
My How:
- Working with my brain-hamsters after a lifetime of trying to eradicate them.
- Liking my hamsters, after a lifetime of believing they were my enemies.
- Being proud of my hamsters and their abilities, instead of being ashamed of the simple, everyday tasks that challenge them.
Last updated 2026-10-05.